This post has taken me awhile to blog. These past two months have been crazy busy. I've been bombarded by editing, shooting and catching up with life at home but I'm finally ready to tell you about my amazing trip to Italy. A lot of you have been emailing me saying things like "We can't wait to see the photos! We can't wait to hear all about it! We're so excited!" Well, here's your chance. I spent an amazing two weeks in Italy with my friend Alessandro and his family. Overall, it was an absolute amazing experience and I can't wait to go back.
Before I dive into the trip itself, I just want to say a few things about my dream to travel over seas. Growing up, my family didn't have the privilege to travel much. When we said we were going to travel, that meant going into Providence or going up to Boston. That was the extent of it. I remember one time we went to Six Flags. It was two hours away and we ended up staying the night there in this dingy motel. We thought that was traveling. Being a big dreamer, I always dreamed that we would one day travel across seas together. That I would be able to see the Eiffel Tower in Paris, see the Colosseum in Rome and visit my dream country, Ireland. However, my family didn't come from money. We weren't considered "poor" but we weren't considered rich either. Traveling two hours away was expensive enough, we could never afford a flight, a cruise, or even gas money to travel anywhere else. After 9/11, my family was even more afraid to travel. To this day my mom, grandmother, and my sister have never been on a plane, boat or even a train. I wanted to tell you this for one specific reason...Keep following your dreams. I came from nothing and was just able to travel across the world for the first time. It was only because a lot of dedication, hard work, positive energy and prayer that it was able to happen. I know what your thinking "Ryan, I have dedication, I work hard, and I'm positive but money is the issue!" Trust me, I know how you feel. My advice? Keep working hard, keep being dedicated and keep thinking positive. When Alessandro invited me to stay with him and his family in Italy, I looked at my bank account and said "there is no way." A few weeks later, I logged back in and had just enough for the flight - down to the exact penny. I took a leap of faith and said "God, you're in control" and booked the flight. I was worried about paying my rent that month, my utility bills and everything else but somehow, I had enough for all of that and more. I truly believe it was a gift from God. I've always prayed my dreams would come true and they're finally starting to. So, keep praying, keep giving, keep positive, keep driving, and keep working hard. It'll all pay off. Never give up because someone told you no or you can't. Prove them all wrong and follow your dreams.
With love,
Ryan